Listen Bobbi Jo, meet somewhere safe, like a coffee shop. Ask him lots of questions and let him ask you. That's it for date#1. Then you decide if there's anything there. Wait for him to call.
There are far too many juvenile pigs out there frankly just trying to get laid. You can find out a lot over coffee.
FWIW, I had a Match.com friend for a while. We met for coffee three times before we did anything else. We went for dinner (casual pizza), went fishing, went to the zoo, went to the circus. Kept the focus on just being friends.
He just stopped calling after Memorial Day. It was fine. It was just enough of a friendship to know I could care for someone else. He was newly separated from his W so it was, I think, the same for him.
It was nice for a while, and I do hope you go out and make lots of friends and yeah, never settle!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
