Help... I need to stop reacting!

[Lost Rabbit]

Rocked once you get used to the dance, two steps forward, three steps back, you start to embrass it a bit, thats when you start to play the game, because you know that every time you dance forwards you will dance backwards, but every good dance has both in it, and of course sideways for a bit of added interest lol!

No we havent all mastered detached, more realised the game and maybe moved a few moves along the board to give us more confidence in out abilities to play, BUT we all make mistakes and end up with the "go to jail" card and are back here asking for guidance or moral support, which thank fully is freely given and in abundance on here.

Spin a mindset on your marriage, you wouldnt just give your kids anything or everything because you could because it wouldnt be good for them, likewise with your marriage, being a bit selfish for you isnt bad for your marriage if done with the right heart and mind! Sorry I sound if I have swallowed the sermon whole today lol!

Great news about the IC Im sure having someone to confide in person will help a great deal, so far I havent but maybe thats because Im too typically british stiff upper lip lol! and maybe because I get enough feedback and advice on here and with my friends.

Anyway I hope the day gets better for you. x

Cutterbug if youre reading too I hope you get a good nights sleep, mines been a bit up and down the last few days and its not good especially as Im a eight hours a day girl!