RDW. You and I were both the givers in our relationships. I cut this off from my WAS and left it for the OM to provide. This is one of the side benifits from detaching. Protection. You remove yourself from the game being played by your WAS. Now they have to get all those EN's that you provided from the OP.

This is a powerful weapon for you to use. As now the OP must provide all the EN's. They are either up to this task or they fail at it. You are no longer playing the WAS game. They still think you are a pawn in their plans. But you have moved on to playing monopoly. ( sorry for the worst pun ever )
Believe me this is one of the most powerful weapons you can use. WAS is in full taker mode. This salvo will be noticed. It will make them angry. But who cares. That is their issue. You go dark on him now. Cracks will appear. You begin to protect yourself from all this.

It will be hard. Very hard. But it is an option.

At least I would cut of the EN's

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