My W is coming over tomorrow night to babysit my D. Left a VM for her to ask if she would bring a few things over that I lent her. I've had no response.

Couple this with the no response from her last week and my gut is telling me she is pulling away completely from my D (and me).

If she tells me tomorrow she won't be seeing either of us again, I'm wondering how to respond to it. Would like to be prepared so I don't go all weak at the knees and become clingy or needy OR be nasty and angry!

Advice really appreciated on how I should approach it.

Good news is I went back to the gym today for the first time in weeks. Exhausted but at least my GALing has started again.

Last edited by P17; 11/03/09 04:24 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"