"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
1. Those of you reading over from my other threads will remember the She's BFF. Got a text that bff packed her stuff and is heading out of state tonight. Surprised they had such issues.
2. Dog saw the Pdoc. Dog needs to not dwell, do social things, take extra time out, understand that this is a tough time and allow myself to feel down at times. The Black Dog didn't visit as much during the summer because I was active.
Last edited by orangedog; 11/02/0909:45 PM.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
That I hide in the house pretending I'm still a housewife.
To get out and about.. like going to a bookstore, having a coffee and sitting and reading for an hour.
The hurt I feel from my former spouse is control I'm giving to him.
To write about what I'm going through.. a woman with dependency issues, being divorced and finding herself single again. Cuz I don't know who in the heck I am.
Get a job.
*hugs*
So, Dog.. you're a man of few words. How about sharing a bit more, venting, closing your eyes and typing without worrying about syntax, typos or anything.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
The Dog was able to move around today a little better.
hmm...write more...write more...will try.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
Despite kindness offered days ago by the She when the Dog's paw fixed, overall sense is not changed or is perhaps even worsened.
Once again the dog finds he would simply not be involved. Not open himself up to all that once was there. Dog doesn't feel like trying to impress the She whatsoever as he used to in the past. Stay in the doghouse and watch.
It would be nice to relax and just enjoy, but nahh..
Dog needs to concern himself less. As Gyspy says, it's control I'm giving the She.
Last edited by orangedog; 11/03/0907:18 AM.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
I get the black dog sometimes myself. (Although I have a black dog in real life, my black Lab mutt, and he's actually very cheery).
I have to watch for that all the time I think. I just try to act as if I'm good, being with people is important for me, exercising, doing fun stuff occasionally, cleaning the house, etc. It took me over 40 years to figure that out!!! Glad to hear it sounds like you're aware of that stuff now too. Maybe a huge part of dealing with the "dog"....
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
