Okay. So I need to make a boundary. H said before he left last night that he wants to come hang out here tonight and see the boys rather than take them out. So, should I make plans and just not be here while he's visiting? Or should I tell him no. That he has to take the boys out?

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14