No matter what I read, what I understand about them or what I see them going through I still think I could never do it myself. Maybe the LBS's are just better people?
I don't know that better is the right word, but maybe different? I do see WAS usually seem to have more of a self-focus and sometimes addictive behavior so maybe more of a predisposition to affairs (or alcohol or gambling or whatever). I think a lot of LBS tend to have more of an others-focus and focus on others instead of themselves.
I wouldn't say we're better though. Maybe we are both somewhat out of balance. My X (and I suspect many or most WAS) have too much of a focus on self, and would be benefited by working on focusing on others. I think LBS are too focused on the WAS and family or whatever, and would benefit by focusing on self sometimes (I have learned and work on this myself).
