I hope you had a great date. My first date out was fun, but then the guy never called. Of course, that was okay, I would rather learn he is a jerk now than later!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I hope you had a great date. My first date out was fun, but then the guy never called. Of course, that was okay, I would rather learn he is a jerk now than later!
Oh, Lola... You must have missed the part where I posted the clip about throwing up in my mouth a little bit...
What does it mean "try too hard?" No costumes? No roles play? No Santa's sexy little outfits? Ohhh, scratch him off your list Bbj. Too boring... S
Oh, K, that isn't it...
I tried to condense the conversation and it must have lost something in translation.
Basically he texted asking what was up. I was tired and not in the mood for a text session after the debacle of a non-date I had. So I texted back that I was heading to bed.
His response: Oh yeah? And what you wear to bed LOL
Again, after gropey joe, I was not going to feed into that. So I deflected with
Me: Sorry to disappoint I am a t-shirt girl!
(Truth be told I wear any number of things depending on my mood incl. nighties, lingerie, etc but the standard is a tshirt)
His reply was something to the effect of "the sight of a woman in nothing but a tshirt can be just as hot as lingerie"
So he didn't actually say anything about trying too hard, I surmised that from his comments.
Ok so I had the Phillies minus 1.5, the falcons +11.5 (I think they are going to cover) and I had the over on BBJ (did I get that one?)
Nice, John!
No, he didn't try, he just out and out did!! Yeah, I pulled away and said Good Night on that one...
Well, optimist that I am, I know it can only get better!
and to think that I believed that the Midwest had an abundance of well-mannered, tactful men. HAHAHAHA. Aparently his impetuous, juvenile won out over his well-mannered tactful side or something. Eaaahh why am I giving the benefit of the doubt to somebody I don't know from Adam.
Some things are best left in your mind. Guess he was absent for that life lesson OR Something!
Any way sweet sis, happy journeys through the buffet line. Maybe try to keep a little more distance between you and the offerings. That is why they put the big plexi glass hood/spit shield over the buffet ..LOL.
I will pray for great and plentiful blessings for you.
I hope you had a great date. My first date out was fun, but then the guy never called. Of course, that was okay, I would rather learn he is a jerk now than later!
Oh, Lola... You must have missed the part where I posted the clip about throwing up in my mouth a little bit...
Ooooh...I sure did...Yikes. You deserve a BIG HUG....
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
OMG I missed a lot when I was down sick. Grabbed the boob? Skinnier in the pic? OMG OMG...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Listen Bobbi Jo, meet somewhere safe, like a coffee shop. Ask him lots of questions and let him ask you. That's it for date#1. Then you decide if there's anything there. Wait for him to call.
There are far too many juvenile pigs out there frankly just trying to get laid. You can find out a lot over coffee.
FWIW, I had a Match.com friend for a while. We met for coffee three times before we did anything else. We went for dinner (casual pizza), went fishing, went to the zoo, went to the circus. Kept the focus on just being friends.
He just stopped calling after Memorial Day. It was fine. It was just enough of a friendship to know I could care for someone else. He was newly separated from his W so it was, I think, the same for him.
It was nice for a while, and I do hope you go out and make lots of friends and yeah, never settle!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
I really can't believe he went for a grab either! I don't get it!
My "first meetings" have all been for a casual meal, with one ice cream shop thrown in. There were a couple where I knew there wasn't going to be another, but no complete disasters. Only one with a kiss, and that wasn't my idea!
All guys are not pigs. Or at least some of us can contain the piggishness!
KJ I am with you on the coffee shop idea! Love coffee plus it is a nice place to chat without being too noisy.
Jeff, dinner is always a good thing, because, hey, we have to eat sometime, right?
Definitely not throwing in the towel. Just going to slow down, move at my own pace and if anybody isn't good with that, he can go browse another profile!!
One of my most fun 'first dates' was when Dan and I were briefly broken up in college. The guy actually came to my room and picked me up at the door. We went miniature golfing, and it was a ton of fun!
And the best first kiss I ever had was with a guy I had known for two years before that. We were on the campus activities board together so we planned concerts, comedians, etc. Same kind of sarcastic/witty humor. We hung out one evening while Dan and I were split up (again!) and it just sort of happened. I suppose two years isn't exctly rushing!! Of course Dan and I got back together a week later so who knows what fun it could have been...
You must have missed the part where I posted the clip about throwing up in my mouth a little bit... 
