Do you have access to people who could help you, such as an Alcoholics Anonymous chapter nearby? Even if you live out in the sticks somewhere, you might be surprised. I highly recommend it. Bring other people in and let them help you!
Your mention of kinesiology worried me a bit. Is this "kinesiology" as in working sore joints, sort of sports medicine light, or is this "Applied Kinesiology" where you test muscles to diagnose allergies and other internal medical issues? If the former, it's fluffy but real, and maybe having an interest will help her. If the latter, it's a scam on par with homeopathy or astrology, and the deeper she gets involved in it the more she's going to get hurt when she realizes what it really is. Quackwatch on Applied Kinesiology
The woo-woo kind of kinesiology is also called "Special Kinesiology" or "Energy Kinesiology." Don't be fooled by the scientific "-ology" name. It's no different than astrology in that respect, riding the coattails of the real science.
Now, is it a good idea for you to bring all this up to her? Maybe not, at the moment. But it's good for you to know what's going on. If she's involved in Applied Kinesiology and she's studying to be an AK professional herself, someone is taking her money and playing her for a fool. She's not going to be happy about that! If you're not comfortable being the one who punctures that balloon (I don't blame you) maybe someone else could do it.
