Donna...thanks for that article. Of course, there are a lot of positives and negatives in that article. My profession, for one.

To sofaraway...both my L and I and have felt that the LG is on my STBW's side throughout this. I don't think her recommendation would be pro FIB. JMO right now as I am not sure.

IMO, this would have been pretty straight forward to settle. STBXW is driving this to court right now.

As mentioned, the state of NY only offers sole custody. Joint custody is only agreed to between two parties. SHOULD the court award custody to STBXW simply based on her being the mom, most likely, I will never see my kids again. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;