((((Rabbit)))) Thanks for stopping by my thread and your words of encouragement. So nice to go into a new day knowing someone out there is thinking of you isn't it? It sounds to me like you have re-established boundaries, and you know what they are and communicate them. Then, you respond to each individual sitch as it comes along. I've noticed a similar pattern with my H in that he will treat me like I don't exist but then somehow express that he is feeling unneeded or unwanted when I am GALing and apparently those were some of the ways he had been feeling pre-bomb which, in part, lead us to where we are. so then I get stuck knowing how to respond. Sometimes I think you've got to trust your instincts to a certain extent. It sounds like you are doing well so far today! Keep your PMA!
