Ha! I need more than 2 pots of coffee. I am DRAGGING butt. Seriously. I'm thinking about taking off Thursday just to get some stuff done that I need to. This week will go on forever I think. Supposed to have baseball tonight but it has been raining all week. Now they decided to make it a "game time decision" which I hate. Dress, show up, look at the fields, and OH, it's too wet! Everybody go home! Just call the freaking game... lol
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Also if you would like to email me so we can start pulling this group together and I will put it so that it does not pull up on here if a search is done.
My email is "kevin" "4" "dallas" at yahoo.com. So just take out the quotes and put it together. I had contact with Fightin4mywife tonight. I am going to give him a call tomorrow. He is wanting to get together and form a group.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Hey B! Yep. Things are going well. J is still crazy as ever... went through about a good 3 weeks but then of course this weekend crazy was back. B/c he had the kids and ooops I might have been enjoying myself without him. lol I didn't answer every one of the 50 plus times he called and texted.
I am really happy right now and things are going well.
Thanks for checking in!
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
I know! I will try to update more, but between the kids and my life I've been super busy. Okay, so I knew crazy was back, but omg just let me recap....
Anyway, So yeah the weekend the kids were gone for another holiday, first S bday then Halloween. I was busy and had plans for the weekend. I went out and tried to enjoy myself, however, my phone kept ringing and txting off the hook! I answered most of the time, cuz he had the kids but then it just got out of hand. EX was obviously scared that I was out having a good time, on a date or something (which I was...) and he was determined to ruin it.
Yelled at me, told me that I would not be able to contact them, turned off his phone AND my son's cell phone (which I pay for) and one of the things we agreed on after the protective order and all the drama was that my son['s phone would stay on at ALL times, where I could reach them.
He then called me again, and we had an ugly conversation about the phone, etc. and he said that he pays child support so he can do whatever he wants with the phone b/c he pays for it??? Um last time I check c/s didn't pay for phones. He was just a TOTAL JERK for the entire weekend. Why? Cuz I'm not sitting on my azz miserable and waiting for him at his beck and call. Meanwhile, he is still seeing the little girl, I know for a fact, even though he says he's not talking to her. Not that it's any of my problem, except for crazy people being around my kids.
Anyway, I stopped responding to the calls and txts after I got the kids back. Oh, he stalked around and made a scene at the soccer game on sunday and yelled at me across the field. Uh, yeah. Good thing the little golf cart sheriff was near by, I thought might need him. Ug.
So, here is the most interesting part. He calls and txt today all day while I'm at work. I return his call at lunch. Get his vm and it says... Hi, this is J. (my name) I love you. Let me come home. Then, I get a txt from my mom a little while ago that says got a strange message from J. Great, the saga continues and the psychoness is back. omg.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher