DB is for you not to be shared with your W. 5LL is a great book to be read, if it doesnt stick the first time put it aside and try again, it definitely read a bit better for me the second time I tried!
Think you have got the right attitude about the house, keep ploughing on as it will give you something to focus on, has all the fittings been chosen by both of you, if not perhaps you could involve W in choosing some, or just keep things totally neutral so its not to personalised, if you get back together you can always change a few things later!
Hope your copy of DR arrives soon, that will give you a better insight into what goes on here!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
