Well I ended up going to sleep, we had both said that he was sleeping in the spare room tonight, but dont ask me what time it was but he came into our room and asked if I minded if he joined me. He was like a coiled spring, so I said no I didnt mind, he lay there so tense I offered him a cuddle and he said he'd cuddle me, which we did and we both fell asleep. Hes now up and about and obviously stressed as hell again, I just dont know what to do?
Do nothing; no pressure on him right now. Keep up a positive mental attitude.
You can expect him to pull back after this kind of positive interaction, because it means he's considering things. He's not supposed to feel this way; you're splitting up, right?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
