Originally Posted By: stu321
Some good news today. My wife asked me if I was open to seeing a counciller. I said I was. Now I just need to make sure it is a good councillor and I'm not sure how I can determine this. I know I need to make sure they are pro marriage, but how do I determine this ?


Ask them. You can also look here:

http://www.marriagefriendlytherapists.com/

Originally Posted By: stu321

I can't wait for DR to arrive. Would it be advisable to read the book with my wife ?


No, it's best to read DR by yourself.

If you want to share a book, look at His Needs Her Needs or The Five Love Languages.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."