Long Journey .......... advice please

[Sanderika]

(((((Gucci)))))

Thank you so much for being gentle and kind to us.

Your words are hitting home. You have written to us because you care and it comes through in a warm manner. Your "take" does make perfect sense and says truth.

I actually have tears reading your words and I think it is because I know you are right and it feels like you know us. Also the pain is not buried very far below the surface.

My H and I were high School sweethearts, we have been together for a very long time. We grew up together basically. I know him very well. He and I worked very hard for the same goals. We have a son together, we have acquired many assets together. I do believe that my H was in a MLC and that now you are right he is just a WAS having an affair (a long term affair). I guess I see that your words are true, he isn't going to end his "new found" lifestyle for me and son.

I need to stop being scard to be without him. I need to learn to accept that things between us are forever changed. I can be friendly and kind to him, I need to move forward in my life with my son and without my H. The problem is how. How do I do it? I am like a car stuck on the ice. I just seem to spin my wheels a little forward and a little back actually not moving off the ice at all.......

Sanderika