I think that after this first visit you need to have a schedule set up as to when yor and W will be dropping by to see S. It is simply a matter of consideration. If you do not have an agreed time, then it will be a source of irritation and make things worse in the stitch.
We have another member whose WAW was popping in whenever she wanted....unannounced....and the LBH did not appreciate it at all. Once you S then you have to act accordingly.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
