WAW/Affair Exposed - Advice? #3

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Today W was all nice and gave me pictures of D1 for myself and to hand out to my family when she came to pick her up.

This evening she parked herself and D1 next door with OM.

I'm not really reacting to any of it... still feels like a slap in the face regardless.

She could care less about the family she has torn apart, just like OM. Just a ridiculous situation this has been.

I'm really sorry about this. I think we all know how this feels.

She's trying to do nothing more than rile you. You're doing great. Don't react to it. If you do, she wins and you lose power. If you don't, she will keep pushing and pushing and pushing until you do react or until she snaps. You just need to make sure she snaps first. When she does she loses all the power.

Maybe I'm off base, but that's what I see my situation as - a power struggle. It's about you retaining your power and making yourself feel better as a result.

It still amazes me who WAS have so much love for you one week and can do this stuff the next. No matter what I read, what I understand about them or what I see them going through I still think I could never do it myself. Maybe the LBS's are just better people?