Hi Deep, Thanks for your thoughts and sharing your sitch with me. That is very helpful. My H has not yet decided he can commit to the M, so I have no leverage to ask those kinds of things... yet. I am still holding out hope that he will wake up at some point too. He is attending MC with me, and so far the MC has started challenging him quite effectively... but also not pushing too hard, so I am hopeful. (but very cautiously so... the months since the bomb have taught me never to get my hopes up too much... very dangerous to the emotional well being! It is encouraging to hear that your wife did eventually wake up. And, that you survived all the pain, heart ache and anxiety. Also - that you were emotionally done at times but still found your way through to forgive and move forward. It IS possible! Sometimes I just need to hear that. One day at a time... sometimes one hour at a time .... that is what I am just trying to do now. Thanks again...
