Am I at this stage?

[TrentC]

So, H just left. AAAAHHHH!!!! He did not mention the MC. I asked him how his day was and he bypassed it completely...He came into the house completely grumpy...he even admitted to the grumpiness, but said he had no idea why.

OK, you have to get better at this. Seriously.

But no mind reading, right Trent?

Well, OK, you can read my mind. What am I thinking of?

One thing though, he walked in the house grumpy, and left happy. I put a smile on his face, and he told me again tonight that I'm funny lately. Well open your eyes buddy. You are leaving happy, doesn't that mean something? I wish i would have mentioned that when he left. Just how he didn't seem to be grumpy anymore. Kind of throw it in his face for him to realize. I know the MC was going to ask him today if he wants back in the marriage. He told me this morning he was going to ask him, so maybe I'll wait and see what happens over the next week now that someone has gotten him thinking again, before I bring up R.

Cutterbug has it right. Look how far things have come in the past few weeks. You have come so far, and all you have to do is...

Be. Patient.

You can totally do this. You have a plan; the plan will work.