Looking for a good time!!

[BobbiJo]

Things I learned from my first non-date:

1)Guys also put their "skinny" pictures on web profiles

2)Never flirt too much via text before you meet in person

3)Some 32-yr-olds still have the habits of 14-yr-old boys trying to grab their first boob

4)Move on down the buffet line, never never never settle! I will not go on a second date to be nice, when there is NOTHING happening there....

Actually I am pretty upbeat all things considered. I still know there is fun out there for me.

For example, MG #2 who texted me a couple times DURING my non-date...

[BobbiJo]

Well, you tried. Doesn't mean you can't have a good new friend, right?

Next on the buffet line..........

Again, I'm thoroughly impressed with your courage BBJ.

Actually, no, not going to be my new good friend. Sorry but if you kiss someone and then feel nauseous, it is hard to come back to them with 'let's be friends'. He clearly wants happy fun time and it won't be with me!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ynsr1bQtYts

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((((BobbiJo)))))))

I don't know that you have to be that good a sport! If you aren't feeling it, you don't need to kiss him!

Maybe you need someone a bit older......

[john210]

oh well...welcome to the wonderful world of internet dating....loose the good sport stuff BBJ and loose it fast....no attraction = no kissing...end of story. Also, do not worry about crushing anybody BBJ...we are all adults... "sorry #1 you are a nice guy BUT......"

[BobbiJo]

OHHHHHH don't worry! I will NOT do that again! I honestly only kissed him for purely selfish reasons!

(there goes the preschool teacher BBJ halo... )

I hadn't kissed anybody in like, oh, a year! Plus we did have nice talks on the phone so I was going to give him the benefit of the doubt. Nope, not gonna happen again. No qualms about that! If the little 'spark' isn't there, the kiss won't be either!

He made it clear he wants to go out again so I will have to set him straight.

[john210]

He tried to grab your boob????

Ok so I had the Phillies minus 1.5, the falcons +11.5 (I think they are going to cover) and I had the over on BBJ (did I get that one?)

[BobbiJo]

He tried to grab your boob????

Ok so I had the Phillies minus 1.5, the falcons +11.5 (I think they are going to cover) and I had the over on BBJ (did I get that one?)

Nice, John!

No, he didn't try, he just out and out did!! Yeah, I pulled away and said Good Night on that one...

Well, optimist that I am, I know it can only get better!

[BobbiJo]

(((((((BobbiJo)))))))

I don't know that you have to be that good a sport! If you aren't feeling it, you don't need to kiss him!

Maybe you need someone a bit older......

Yeah, maybe I do!!!

[john210]

You have to laugh it off BBJ..wow...some people have nerve....how much alcohol did he have? Could he not figure out that you were not really interested?
You hit the nail on the head when you said: "Never flirt too much via text before you meet in person" .... let's just say it raises expectations.

[BobbiJo]

You have to laugh it off BBJ..wow...some people have nerve....how much alcohol did he have? Could he not figure out that you were not really interested?
You hit the nail on the head when you said: "Never flirt too much via text before you meet in person" .... let's just say it raises expectations.

Yeah, it obv. raised expectations. Sadly he had nothing to drink but iced tea...I am choosing to just shrug my shoulders and move forward. I have found that road to happy and I will not be deterred now!