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[ClingingToHope]

Awest, you know in a way I envy you and then don't envy you at all. Your H is at least thinking about you and the M even if he's doing little to actually make it better.

I emailed my W on some scheduling stuff and she emailed back answering all my questions and then asking for that list of lawyers I mentioned about collaborative divorce and the fact she's checking on rules on her retirement plan.

I still think it's better to do this by email because on the phone it's just really hard for me to keep it together when she starts talking D.

I mean at least he cares. Mine is so set on D it just hits me like a ton of bricks. I don't know how I so turned her to stone.

Where I don't envy you is his attitude toward your S. I just don't get how he can avoid his own S. There's some deep-seated inadequacy issues there. I hope for your S's sake he gets it together.