Not Me...Ever part 2

[SDFoundGirl]

If it's a joint account, how can he move/close it without your permission? Is he just opening a whole new account?

Honey, you need to protect yourself legally. File for a legal separation at least so you're assured of finances. And document his lack of participation in his sons' lives...I'm betting if he files and finds out that he'll have to pay extra $$$ if he doesn't take more time with them he'll *all of a sudden* want to be dad of the year. Document it now.

And please, protect your finances, at least in terms of support for your sons. Hardball, chica. God says forgive, but nowhere does He say be a doormat. Right is Right, and the legal system is in place to help enforce that.

SD