Well, quite confusing to be honest with you. Everyday it seems like we're making progress. He compliments me daily, he calls me now instead of texting me all the time, he makes efforts to spend time with me and the kids when its "my" time with the kids, he spent the night here the other night again (for no reason, not sure why and definitely not discussed..it just happened, spare room though), he calls me for no reason sometimes, he talks about how when he does stay in the spare room how much it bothers him, he calls me "babe" like its no big deal, he went to MC for the first time today since he actually left, etc. None of this was happening two weeks ago. But no change in the area of R. He constantly talks about "our" house, "our" yard, "our" vehicles...blah blah blah. But still no R talk. Not sure what is going through his mind. We definitely have made huge steps since a week and a half ago. This has all been happening since last friday. I'm confused, I'm in limbo, I really want to know what the heck is going on, but I don't want to pressure him to answer me. That's what pushed him back last time. My MC thinks its time to sit down and talk about it. Since our last "talk" about R. He was still "done". But MC thinks he has made huge strides since then, and that we need to be honest with each other and discuss it. I dunno. What do ya think?


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14