Obviously, you are still on top of things... err, well, except for the finances thing. I wouldn't want to look either.... there's probably something scary in that pile of financial paperwork.... I wouldn't want to be your H, nor you, but there are worse things in life....
You have your health, your horses, H is being reasonable, looking to fit himself back into your life, all in all, you've got a roof over head, food on the table when you're hungry... the weather has been great, there's a lot more to be grateful for, if you just turn around and look, as I'm sure you have when you begin to worry about those finances.
It will all work out in the end..... it always does!
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........