Wow, girl. The fact you made those boundaries with H - so proud of you. I wish I could be as strong!
Oh, that just breaks my heart about S. That happens often with me too, but I'm lucky enough that S is just slightly too young to get it yet, but I know that day is coming, when daddy's going to crush his little heart. How can he not see how lucky he is that he has such a wonderful little boy that wants to see him and spend time with him. He's the one missing out. I wonder what his excuse will be this time? But i don't think telling him how he is crushing his son is guilting him - he should know what kind of impact his actions are having on his S.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10