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I'm sorry, but I've been following AW from the very beginning, and I do NOT think he's as detached as he ought to be by now, and I think it's holding him -- and his daughter -- back, emotionally.


That's true. There are times when I feel this way as well and you're spot on in that it has held me back.


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I think he's still suffering, and I think he holds the keys to his own healing if only he'd do what he knows he needs to do.


Yep, you're right, although there are days where I am completed detached. Good days and bad days. It's been given to me a little more bluntly by one of my friends. His words were, "John, hang up the f#$$ing phone and call a lawyer, you'll never be in a better position than you are now." That's putting aside all the emotion though, except for the anger I guess.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!