Rest tonight. Don't even spend time here. Go be good to yourself ((()))
Agreed. You're one of the good humans; you have a good night and play with your kids.
Keep this in mind: in the time to come, your sons will see how you and their father work this out. And their hearts will always lie with the one that was there for them, regardless of how the relationship turns out.
You can work on helping them heal their relationship with their father if he chooses to be part of their life.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement