Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Hi SN. Thanks for the note. I think any anniversaries of significant(negative) events can trigger emotion in us or our spouses. I'm particularly dreading Christmas as that is the bomb was dropped and I suspected and confronted H about an affair.

I actually have been thinking about anniversaries as I think the last few days might have triggered the backwards march for my H. I'm not sure how the effects stock market crash last year affected H but he and I know it did as he is a financial planner and feels very responsible for his clients profits/losses. I also think it was this time last year that H met the OW and started his EA with her(turned into a PA in January so that'll be a fun month too!)

I know I'm not repsonsible for H's emotions/feelings but I am a very mother-y person and I feel the home is my responsiblity and right now our home emotional life sucks much of the time...

I will say I have become much less of a "mother" to H: don't remind him to take his vitamins/pills..don't really remind him of anything anymore-just give it to him once(and then he gets mad b/c he says I didn't give him the kids' schedules.. he seems to forget things much more frequently than before the MLC).

Thanks for the support. I can always use it! :-) Hang in there. Today is just a moment, not the rest of your life. You can get through this moment!