You got to do what you should / One life

[MichelleLT]

Well, the last time I communicated with him, I told him I didn't want to talk to him unless it was necessary (meaning the D, finances, tax refund).

And yeah, he definitely decided to contact me anyways.

And yeah, from my recollection there's some revisionist history in there too, but maybe he really sees it that way? I don't know. Guess it doesn't matter.

I told him almost 2 years ago, in response to him telling me that D wasn't final and we could always date, that once the D was done there was no chance of that. The D finalizing was a total deal breaker for me. And I meant it.

I can't imagine getting remarried, to anyone, let alone XH.