In my situation, the W laughed at me last week because I wasnt "over" her yet.
If it makes you feel any better, my W and her friends have also laughed at me and made fun of me for the same thing. I have also been laughed at for keeping hope alive and praying for help.
It is a terrible feeling when those things happen to you. It makes you feel pretty low. That seems to be one of the areas where detachment comes in and plays a healthy role so that it no longer bothers you.
Kevin
Yes, that is cruel. My W is already talking to a mortgage broker about buying the house from me. She has the ball rolling and Im pretty sure its not going to stop. As much as I want the M to work, she has made it clear to me. And yes, this has made it easier for me to start detaching. Unless she gets some sense knocked into her or a miracle happens, DDay is coming.
