i agree with Kerry. We all have reasons to be pi$$ed about our exes' behaviours but if at all possible, I think the best interest of the children should dictate our interactions with the ex. These are rules I live by and D8 is benefitting from them...I have decided to bury the hatchett with ex. Now, I realize that your stbxw is very confrontational but keep your eye on the goal FIB...your kids....stay focused. Keep your head up!