Lulu..just wanted to fill you in on my experience with MC. My H left 7/19/09...WAS..said he was "done" so I asked him to go to MC to help me understand "WHY???" He sat there with no explaination whatsoever...it even got to the point where the MC asked him to try to find some sort of explaination. After two times in which he said he did not want to work on M, the MC said he shut down so he didn't have to feel and I was to move on with my life. You can imagine how disappointed I was because I thought him agreeing to go to MC was a positive sign but it was just an opportunity for him to validate his reason for leaving even more!
This has been the craziest roller coaster ride I've ever been on. H still won't communicate any feelings. I truly think he is going through MLC but he's only 33 but I was told that it's still possible. H is a completely different man and unfortunately not a man I would ever want to be with. So, if he doesn't show any signs of work on M, then I don't know how much longer I can live in limbo.
