Puppy you are correct. In all cases it seems the only preventative medicine there is, is to try to keep the relationship fresh and exciting. THAT is really hard as kids, and bills, and life pile up. You have to be the guy she dated, not the guy she married 10 or 15 or 20 years ago and has been annoyed with for half of those years.
My wife explained it like this...her affair guy always looks good, is in a good mood, is happy to see her...with me, she accidentally wanders into bathrooms I've smelled up.
Ironically this simple advice is useless here because by the time you get here it is probably too late.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
