Like I said: I think The Divorce Remedy is a better book to start with. And yeah, being immersed in these forums for a while will get you up to speed, but it's nice to have a book to ground you in the basics. We go on a lot about what to do, but I think MWD does a pretty good job with the how and why to do it.
As for the haircut, What do you think you should do?
Do you cut it because he likes the job you do, or do you cut it because it's a money-saving exercise? If it's the former, you might agree to do it and treat it as an attempt to reach out. If it's the latter, maybe he needs to start taking care of his own grooming needs.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
