Something else.... I think I know the answer to this but am putting it out there anyway... just because I have no where else to process this stuff and no one else to process it with (so thanks!)

Is there ever any purpose to contact with OP? I'm sure any of us who have been there fantasize about what to say to the homewrecker.... Some days it is all I can do not to do that. I have rehearsed various scripts in my mind so many times....

Just putting it out there... has anyone done that and what effect did it have?

I know it is the WAS that we need to hold responsible but it is so tempting sometimes....

Just having a moment... grrrr.....