I might be numb...er than a hake, but I see that your H is still on the fence about your sitch.
He seems to contradict himself almost like he is trying to convince himself, and not you, where he stands.
I do not think or believe for one second your H is done.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11