Long Journey .......... advice please

[Sanderika]

Julia,

I do not actually know if my H would come back if I go ahead with the D. I am not sure I said that he would. If he would it would be easy and done a long time ago.

I want to be right and happy at the same time.

I agree with the nature of the holding pattern and it's unfairness. I am not the one in a MLC. I want to give my H as much time as he needs to come out of this. I do see progress. I am just wondering if he ever will at this point. My H and marriage are very precious to me, as everyone's is on this BB.

I saw my H through cancer and it was a long, trying and tiring road. I have given the MLC he is in as a sickness that needs time and patience and love and committment. Am I really wrong??
I love this man with all my heart, he is the love of my life.

I know thiere is an answer to this like most problems in life.

I am seeking the answers just as much now as I was over 4 years ago.

Thanks you Julia, I appreciate your wisdom. I understand your sitch and realize where you have been as well.

(((((Julia)))))

Sanderika