"If LRT isn't working and your spouse is not actively filing for D and is also not making moves to reconcile, consider filing yourself" -- but now I can't seem to find the reference anywhere.
There's tons of examples here on this site, see BigJohn's sitch's, and myself....
Which begs the questions, should I change my login name yet on this site???
Originally Posted By: Greek
"I want what I want but I don't want to do it - you do it!"
I can't tell you how many times this seemed to be the case, from her saying I was going to be paying for the D, to me having to setup mediation meetings, and her just not doing anything remotely forward looking.
It got to the point where she was asking me "So, should we setup another mediation meeting?" and "When is our next mediation meeting?"
That was surreal in the extreme for me.
On the other hand there's cases where people are just hit with the D papers, as well, so every sitch has its differences..
GIMA's seems to mirror mine a bit as well, but his W doesn't seem to be pursuing anything forward. I think that's a bit of cake eating myself, status quo with no strings attached so to speak.
Time to attach some strings GIMA??
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
