Like Cas, I too am deep in thought over this latest turn in conversation. I am gathering my thoughts and will post here in more detail.
One thing I want to say is my H and I were definitely not friends of any sort when this sitch started. He hated me and the ground I walked on. I was not too impressed with him either. It has been since about 4 months post-bomb that H and I started to rekindle our friendship it has grown stronger with time at a fairly steady pace.
Cas, How has the friendship road been travelled for you?
I think we should dissect this topic in baby steps or we will all get buried in information, AGREE?
I am sorry Cas to hijack your thread on this....it is a topic we both need help with. I hope you don't mind.
((((Hugs Everyone)))))
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11