Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[Gardener]

PDT,

I think she's making excuses for her own decision to cut and run from her marriage.

I think if and when you guys reconcile -- or even if you don't, and someday she comes to grips with the truth of her decisions -- she will tell you that it was b.s., and that she was using this as an excuse.

I think she's re-writing your marital history to justify her waywardness.
Puppy

Just following along and I just had to hijack and thank you for this. This what my wife was doing!
At least back when she still communicated with me.