Originally Posted By: fightingirish

He has no respect for me at all.

On top of which my own family (sister and brother) have been treating my kids like crap again, I just can't take much more.

Im surrounded by spoiled, self centered rotten people.

My only saving grace is that H is leaving on business next wk for at least 3 days... I will get a break.

I usually enjoy this time of year, but being and living with H and his moods and just plain emotional abuse is killing me.

But I have to be strong for the boys, If Im not there is knowone else they will have. I cannot and will not do that to them.


Then it sounds like to time decide what you really want. Does this guy really sound like a person who you want to be the father for your kids?

You are correct; you need to make sure that one of you is 100% there for your kids, and you can't count on it being him.

Their well-being is the only reason you should have contact with your H at this point.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."