Thanks girls! Your responses made sense and give me strength.
I am going to approach this with as much calm and class as I can muster, I am going to get both legal and personal counseling. In the meantime I am preparing to leave and plan on if I can remain calm to simply ask H if there is something he would like to tell me and I will assume the answer will be no. So I will ask if he had someone in our condo while I was gone...will let things fall where they may and even if he says no, the feeling I've got in my gut is just too strong.
I am checking out as soon as I can and focus on myself, I am going to start driving this ship...and stand now for me and me only.
Just wish I could buy you all a nice drink with a tiny umbrella in it...
Cannot again express my gratitude for the wonderful support you've provided and you know I'll be back for more. Hope to be able to be there for you guys someday.
Could not still be standing if I did not get this awesome support.
Take care and I'll let you know which road I'll travel next.
Michele M 42 H 41 Married 16 yrs Together 23 yrs D papers slow to progress Taking many deep breaths and trying to keep eyes focused forward
