Another waw/mlc and I need support

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There is no chance I will be moving out of the house. I'm glad that thinks that is the right thing to do. I have told her repeatedly that this is her decision and if she needs to be away from me she can move out. She did for a couple of months. She tried moving back in and now has the master bedroom (this was my choice). She still feels the need to keep a place that she can run to. Fine.

I walk away from the conversation now when it turns to this subject. I've said all I have to say about it. I agree that she could just close the door to the bedroom when she needs to be completely alone. She still says she feels me in the house and needs time without me there. The funny thing is that she has noticed that I have changed and thinks the reason I am doing so well is because I e had the past two months in the house by myself. She thinks that the reason she still feels depressed and confused is because she hasn't had that opportunity. I'm glad she tries to exain how she is thinking and I try to validat her feelings. I won't move out of he house. The kids need the stability that I can give them.