I'm in no hurry, but my dad thinks I should just keep charging along and be done with it. IMO, if this is what H wants, he can do the work. Why should I look like the bad guy?

On a more positive note, he texted me and how are the kids? I didn't reply. After about 20 minutes, he sent a "Hello" I waited about an hour and replied "fine". He wrote back...ok.

The downside is, he knows I always have my cell phone on me. I get tons of texts a day. He is going to think ignoring them is game playing.

I'm thinking it might be better to not initiate texts, but I should respond?