Dia. I hope you have a blast at Disneyland. I love anything Disney. I am so happy for your continued discussions and understanding that the old wasn't so hot and the new needs to be different to avoid the old crud. (And keep the new hot by extension.)
Alas, still baby steps here but good and steady progress. My biggest problems are hormonal, peri-menopausal hell actually, and impatience.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.