For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[courts0818]

Well, I guess he's making rude comments bc he's used to cake-eating. IDK. In the past, there were times when he made those kind of comments, but I didn't make a big deal out if it - bc things were good between us - I took it more as a joke and I probably fired something right back at him. But at this point, it's just rude and disrespectful (not that it really wasn't before, but now I take serious offense to it).

"I don't know why you've started talking trash to me, but I feel like I'm being disrespected. if it doesn't stop, then I don't want to be around you at all." - I'll keep this suggestion in mind. : )

Yes, I know I didn't give him much time to get to our house. I don't usually spring stuff on him with just an hour notice. The truth is, I took a nap when my DD did and when we got up, I only had an hour before I needed to leave. I could have bet money that he wouldn't do it.

And what would be the point of him beating me up a little bit with his text this morning? WTH? So I asked and it didn't work out. What's the point of throwing it back in my face?

Regarding those early morning hours, no I don't have a back up plan. I suppose I could ask my mom, but I will be furious if I have to do that - DD is OUR responsibility. It's not like I enjoy leaving for work @ 4:30am, but I don't have a say in the matter. And nobody else should have to get up at the crack of dawn to help me out bc he doesn't feel doing it.

TrentC, that's another issue...YES indeed my H needs to hear it (and hear LOTS of other things), but you are right he's got his Courtney is a nagging bitch filter on. But, nobody will step up and say anything to him. His family just treats him like a pathetic little baby - "Ohhhh, poor *, he's hurting. We really hope you both can work this out. blah, blah, blah..." How about somebody call him out already!!! Makes me sick!!!!