Well NCB, looking at it that way, you're right on both accounts.
I do feel bad not seeing the kids, sent a message, several actually later on that I loved them and missed them whe S12 tried texting later me later on at night. Needless to say, I was in VERY rare form at the time. I also feel somewhat bad for not taking up XW's "generosity" in the offer, but her complete tone came across like a problem child employee calling in to work due to losing their mother for the 3rd time. Blantantly a complete story.
I also questioned why me? They are old enough to have gone on their own, and there was more than enough people around to take them if really need be versus me driving around at last minute. I still say it was a ploy to bait me up and bring them back home with me.
Speaking of home, this is terific, just as I start to make progress on working through the last of the issues in this regard, my cousin got let go from her full time job today. Terrific. This does not look very good at all. The financial woes never end.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11