Steve, I have been mysterious for months and she did notice. She said that she has never seen me get so many phone calls and that she was happy for me. At this point nothing I have done has worked. I wanted to get this off my chest for me not for getting her back. I also wanted to do it for her-it must suck to lie continualy and not be able to tell the truth. I do have a lawyer and there was one and only one mediation last week. The date I went on was a double date but she does not need to know that. I did not yell or call names during our 2 hour talk and I did not do it out of hate. I am moving forward from now on.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final