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[awest1217]

I agree with you about the flaky fathers, but I am kind of glad since he isn't a good role model that he has taken himself out of the picture. My S is starting to do a lot a church already and loves to sing Jesus songs at home. He is growing spiritually and I don't want H to stop it or deter it by being a bad role model (he won't stop it on purpose because he likes church also).

I don't know about you, but I have a great brother who has been being a good role model to S and I have a few of S's friend's dads (my friends as well) have also been great to spend some time with him. At least he is getting some male influence to help him as he grows.